sexological bodywork - my journey
sexological bodywork
The erotic, sex and sexuality has always fascinated me. From an early age, I became aware of pleasure and how to access it in my body. I also became aware of how sexual energy could hinder or enhance us as humans. I became acutely aware of the veil of shame and guilt. I was driven to understand pleasure, the dynamics of relationships and how our social and cultural conditionings could inhibit us into living in unhealthy and unhappy situations. I wanted my life to be different but I wasn't equipped with the tools to change it.
Being in numerous relationships over time, I noticed the more became involved with someone, asking for what I needed or setting clear boundaries was clouded by habits. The habit of wanting to please the other person, not wanting to feel rejection because all I wanted was to be loved. Abandonment was my ultimate fear. I struggled with closed relating and wanted a more open relationship with partners. This was a huge challenge in my relationships so I ended up doing what my partner felt safe with. This either led to shutting down or looking for connection outside of the relationship. I felt like I being too much and so I hid a part of myself to feel more loveable.
Three years ago, my life went on a rollercoaster. Relationship break up, death, constant change and the unknown took me on a journey into my greatest fears. What I found after a LOT of internal work was resilience, curiosity and relief. Strangely enough, one of the most important tools for healing I found was in the sexual and erotic realm. It's healing potential became apparent and I knew I had to pursue it further.
This lead to sexological bodywork. I felt OMG FINALLY. I was coming home.. I no longer felt required to live in the boundaries of my mind or societal or cultural pressures but within the openness of my heart. The quote, "Change your habits and you change your life," couldn't have been further from the truth. I was given a space to notice my habits, the fears I held which confined curiosity and movement and ultimately a new way a being. I see this work's potential to heal by accessing the orgasmic energy within every person..
Exploration of sexual energy is nothing new and has been explored over the millennia. We are now shifting from the a system that thrived on suppressing our human right to have pleasure, create, heal and empower our lives through the life force within..
One part of the training that I have been passionate was boundaries and consent. This has been vital in my understanding around emotional triggers and navigating relationships to people in my work and personal relationships. This was powerful and feel blessed to offer this to clients. As a somatic sex coach, I offer tools and support to sharpen your boundary edges. I believe that when we are clear, are able ask for what we want then everyone in the interaction has choice and can take responsibility for our stuff. It has been the most liberating and most needed tool in my life. I currently work in Brisbane seeing individuals, couples and groups assisting people with issues they may come with or a desire to become more orgasmic. I am constantly studying, practicing, exploring, playing and furthering my knowledge. I recently attended ISTA (International School of Temple Arts) level 1 and booked into level 2 in Guatemala in April. These kind of trainings are the best kind of homework anyone can have.
Being in numerous relationships over time, I noticed the more became involved with someone, asking for what I needed or setting clear boundaries was clouded by habits. The habit of wanting to please the other person, not wanting to feel rejection because all I wanted was to be loved. Abandonment was my ultimate fear. I struggled with closed relating and wanted a more open relationship with partners. This was a huge challenge in my relationships so I ended up doing what my partner felt safe with. This either led to shutting down or looking for connection outside of the relationship. I felt like I being too much and so I hid a part of myself to feel more loveable.
Three years ago, my life went on a rollercoaster. Relationship break up, death, constant change and the unknown took me on a journey into my greatest fears. What I found after a LOT of internal work was resilience, curiosity and relief. Strangely enough, one of the most important tools for healing I found was in the sexual and erotic realm. It's healing potential became apparent and I knew I had to pursue it further.
This lead to sexological bodywork. I felt OMG FINALLY. I was coming home.. I no longer felt required to live in the boundaries of my mind or societal or cultural pressures but within the openness of my heart. The quote, "Change your habits and you change your life," couldn't have been further from the truth. I was given a space to notice my habits, the fears I held which confined curiosity and movement and ultimately a new way a being. I see this work's potential to heal by accessing the orgasmic energy within every person..
Exploration of sexual energy is nothing new and has been explored over the millennia. We are now shifting from the a system that thrived on suppressing our human right to have pleasure, create, heal and empower our lives through the life force within..
One part of the training that I have been passionate was boundaries and consent. This has been vital in my understanding around emotional triggers and navigating relationships to people in my work and personal relationships. This was powerful and feel blessed to offer this to clients. As a somatic sex coach, I offer tools and support to sharpen your boundary edges. I believe that when we are clear, are able ask for what we want then everyone in the interaction has choice and can take responsibility for our stuff. It has been the most liberating and most needed tool in my life. I currently work in Brisbane seeing individuals, couples and groups assisting people with issues they may come with or a desire to become more orgasmic. I am constantly studying, practicing, exploring, playing and furthering my knowledge. I recently attended ISTA (International School of Temple Arts) level 1 and booked into level 2 in Guatemala in April. These kind of trainings are the best kind of homework anyone can have.
