about nirvana
Hi i am Niv. I love to share with you what I feel and embody.
I see a deep need for better quality, pleasure-based education. For most people, we struggle at times with intimacy, eroticism and sex in our closest relationships. This is because we haven't been given the right tools to guide us. Being more resourced can make all the difference. This support not only helps our sexual experiences but also impact and ripple into every aspect of our life.
I have experience in many sectors. I have taught in the schooling system as well as taught yoga, circus and mindful erotic practices. Relationships, whether the big R or little R kind, are important to me. Each relationship in my life has a unique value to me and how I experience myself. I feel privileged to have trained with beautiful and amazing teachers which has developed my relationship to pleasure, playfulness, the erotic and to the essence of life. It strengthens my connection to nature. I always wish I spent more time in it. I love to move, dance and be in witness to the inner landscape of my body.
Because people read you as strong, powerful and as a leader, they may not know you are vulnerable, soft, caring, loving, generous, funny and kind. one special thing about you is how deeply kinaesthetic you are. it’s one of your superpowers. also, your background knowledge into your physicality means you have much information and embodied knowing about bodies.”
~ Churaig, mentor and coach in sexological bodywork
In my work, I take time to build relationships with clients. We all need a space to be heard and seen. Being a queer, neurospicy, non-binary human, I work well with humans who sit outside of the “norm.” I enjoy sharing this work with people who live with disabilities. My aim is to develop agency to all who come to spend time with me.
I provide a non-judgmental space for people to share their desires, concerns or quirks. Colour is what makes us interesting. My ease at working with all bodies allows any nervousness from clients to shift as they navigate shame, issues or worries they might have or embark with hands on bodywork.
Sessions begin with an intention. Combined with 30+ years of history within bodywork, 20 years of teaching, a lifetime of movement and my developed internal instincts, I work co-creatively with clients. What this means is that we work together to create an experience.
In somatic sex coaching, I aim to educate and provide learning to support your needs or curiosities. In a tantric touch session and erotic enhancement experiences, we discuss and together work to establish the pleasure based experience that YOU truly want.
Essentially I am curious, playful, someone who likes to dive deep, leans into the felt experience, geeks out on things I love and loves a good dance.
The choosing is more important than the doing …
~ Betty Martin - sex educator and founder of the Wheel of Consent®.
